ABOUT THE BOOK
So many women today are stuck in a rut when it comes to their love lives and relationships. Even as strong, successful, super-achieving women, we are taught how to give, not take; how to please others, not ourselves and to settle for good enough instead of fabulous. In this book, Fiona rewrites the rules to romance and cuts through all the B.S. to give you straight talk on how to have the love life and relationships of your dreams – without the drama, angst or losing your self in the process.
Loved this book! It was not only interesting, informative and inspiring, it was also funny and incredibly insightful. Fiona has a very unique way of looking at women’s issues and how to make the most of our sometimes crazy and insane lives. There is another way to look at the joy of connecting and reconnecting in our relationships and even our sex lives! The chapter on being “Blissed Out in the Bedroom” was so honest, real and helpful to me that I wanted to hug her – never before have I read anything like this about sex (and I’ve read a bunch!) and would highly recommend investing in this book!
Shannon M. McCaffery, Founder,
“Fiona, I am LOVING your book! And it is such an important reminder as I had a serious rupture weekend this weekend (spent last night crying). Picking up your book this morning was VERY good for me. It reminded me that I can bring pleasure into my life NOW, no need to wait!
Your book is filled with important tips, funny stories and real answers. Thanks for a great and inspiring ride.”
“I read Fiona’s book, B.I.T.C.H, aka Babe in Total Control of Herself, a few months ago when I was contemplating some issues in my relationship around femininity and masculinity. Timing was perfect!
I love that it is a REAL story based on REAL life experiences of this wise woman. As a psychotherapist specializing in sexuality and relationships, I have been dismayed at the emergence of so many coaches who advocate playing games, not being authentic nor true to ourselves. Fiona is a breath of fresh air as she clearly lays out compelling reasons to show up as YOU, being genuine and clear in all communication.
With so many smart and capable women now in the corporate world, the distinction between bedroom and boardroom has become quite blurred for lots of us! Fiona says, ‘…there is a huge reason for a modern day woman to take the best of both worlds – the merging of the courtesan and the feminist mindsets – and to live in pleasure, playfulness, desire, joy, intellect, and exploration.’ (Page 73) This is profound and excellent advice for all women; we CAN have it all and Fiona shows us how to live into both our feminine and masculine sides, authentically.
The light bulb has gone off for myself personally after reading this book and I highly recommend it as required reading for ALL women – single, dating and those in relationships. It will give you the mindset that you need to be truly happy. I repeat Fiona’s mantra frequently now to myself: “Men chase, women choose!”
Camille Lawson RN, BA, MEd (October 26, 2014)
Women’s Health Consultant: Sexuality, Relationships, Hormones, Nutrition